By: Cloris Kylie Stock “If you don’t like something change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” ~Mary Engelbreit We all know at least one person who we think needs a self-help course or book more than we do. They’re the “wrong” ones, at least in our minds. I…

 By: Amaya Pryce “Keep your attention focused entirely on what is truly your own concern, and be clear that what belongs to others is their business and none of yours.” ~Epictetus  Are you addicted to drama? I was, but I didn’t know it. I thought I was just responding to life, to what was happening….

By: Psychic Rhonda So lately you have spent the majority of your nights pacing the floor and being torn between being patient or walking away. Whether your relationship with someone else’s mate was planned or not one thing is for sure, you have found the situation much harder than you anticipated. You may have told…

By: Psychic Shawn How Do Thoughts Control Events ? Firstly our thoughts create and in order to create we must first think, and if you think positive or negative, then that will be the outcome of events. Overall all the effects and changes you will see in your partner are often determined by your mind….

By: Lauren Stahl “The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the amount of uncertainty you can comfortably deal with.” ~Tony Robbins I didn’t want to believe that uncertainty would be a part of my life. I wanted control. I wanted to know exactly what was going to happen next, and I didn’t….

By: Lauren Erickson-Viereck “Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.” ~Pema Chödrön There is a person in my life who I love with all my heart, but in this relationship I struggle to keep a full cup myself. They are family, the situation is complicated and tender. But…

By: Natalie Edwards “The best possible thing you can get out of a relationship is that you’re with someone who encourages you to be the best version of yourself every day.” ~Nishan Panwar Let me ask you a question. When was the last time you felt supported? When was the last time you felt safe,…

By: Vishnu “Like a sandcastle, all is temporary. Build it, tend it, enjoy it. And when the time comes, let it go.” ~Jack Kornfield I picked up the butter cookies and a small postcard-sized painting I had brought for her. I took the third-floor hotel elevator down. Closing my eyes, I took several deep breaths….

By: Psychic Rhonda It is very difficult getting past a betrayal and broken trust in a relationship and sometimes some people are not able to. You love your partner dearly, but you can’t seem to get past that infidelity that happened before. You question every move and everything suddenly becomes suspicious. Working late, if they…

By: Banu Sekendur “What we seek in love is finding someone with whom we feel safe to reveal our true self.” ~Karen Salmansohn I wasn’t always in a relationship, but I was almost always in love. I even had crushes in kindergarten. I hated school because my grade school teacher didn’t like me. Maybe my crushes helped me…

By: Psychic Tonya How do you know if someone is interested in you and is invested in getting to know you outside of work? It does not matter if it’s a coworker, supervisor, or boss, sign language is the key factor to understanding if someone is invested in getting to know you. For instance at…

By: Naomi Arnold “You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce.” ~Tony Gaskins I highly value being loyal, honest, empathetic, and supportive. I am also partial to advocating for the underdog. As a result, I have historically attempted to be a ‘hero’ in situations of difficulty,…

By: Melodi Cowan “You are strong when you know your weaknesses. You are beautiful when you appreciate your flaws. You are wise when you learn from your mistakes.” ~Unknown Social discovery apps and online dating sites provide us with an incredible amount of dating options. It should be easier to find the right person. Ironically,…

By: Psychic Janette Hello, I am Janette and I want to write about how low self-esteem alters our thinking and emotions. I have been working on myself for a long time and I have noticed something important about this. Low self-esteem (most of the cases) comes from our past. Perhaps you were bullied during school…

By: Jamie Greenwood “A broken heart is not the same as sadness. Sadness occurs when the heart is stone cold and lifeless. On the contrary, there is an unbelievable amount of vitality in a broken heart.” ~Elizabeth Lesser “I love you but I’m not in love with you” was the line my first boyfriend used…

By: Zachary Goodson “When something bad happens you have three choices. You can let it define you, let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you.” ~Unknown Relationships are tough. Even more difficult is maintaining healthy boundaries within a relationship. My head hurts and I feel like I’m going to throw up. Let…

By: Annie Oudom “When we can no longer change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” ~Viktor Frankl “But no. We can give it another chance; I know we can. We just have to try harder…” were my desperate words to him as he was breaking up with me for the second time. As…

By: Psychic Rhonda Everyone has their ideal mate in mind and what type of relationship they desire but sometimes we meet the total opposite or someone who may only possess half of the characteristics we want and the relationship works out beautifully. However, there are times when we choose someone who is out of our…

By: Polly Green “Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh I never gave much thought to my breath unless I was submerged under water for long periods without any. Today I rely on it for more than the obvious function of keeping me alive….

By Cloris Kylie Stock “Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence, and face your future without fear.” ~Unknown  My pet fish died today. Red-striped fins as beautiful as always, he was swimming around in his tank only four weeks ago. First he became less active. Next he refused to eat. Then he…