• You Have to Know What Kind of Love You Deserve to Attract It

    By Melissa Terrels “Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~Rumi My ex used to stomp out of the house every time we had an argument. Literally, he would leave. And usually before he left he’d smash something. One time…

  • Signs Of a Toxic Relationship

    By: Advisor Desiree It’s likely that we’ve all found ourselves in a toxic relationship at one point without even knowing it, whether it be in love, family or friendships. The first sign of being in such a negative relationship is losing your sense of self. If a relationship changes you it should be for the…

  • 5 Ways to Deal With Envy So It Doesn’t Steal Your Happiness

    By: Ashley Lilly “Happiness is found when you stop comparing yourself to other people.” ~Unknown Throughout this year, I’ve noticed myself feeling envious of other people. Particularly, I would feel envious of the famous people that I would see on television, read about in magazines, and follow on social media. I wouldn’t even be envious of them…

  • Are You In The Friend Zone?

    By: Advisor Rhonda You can’t explain the feeling you get when you two are together..all you know is that it’s magnetic! The chemistry and the connection is the strongest you have ever felt with anyone. You find yourself thinking about them all the time and you still get butterflies whenever you are around them. With…

  • 5 Tips to Create a Loving Relationship, With Fewer Disappointments

    By: Lesya Li “Love does not obey our expectations; it obeys our intentions.” ~Lloyd Strom Have you ever felt less about a relationship when it didn’t exactly pan out like a fairy tale? I sure did. I had it stuck in my mind that a great relationship should be picture perfect. When reality would give me a…

  • What to Do When People Always Underestimate You

    By: Rylie Robinson “You can’t base your life on other people’s expectations.” ~Stevie Wonder Being blatantly underestimated is simply a part of my life. No matter what I’m doing, the ordinary will seem extraordinary, and the extraordinary will seem insurmountable to those who look at me for the first time. There is no way I am…

  • Why You Might Feel Like You’re Always the Victim in Relationships

    By: Holly Smith “Your relationship to yourself is and always will be directly reflected in all your relationships with others.” ~Vironika Tugaleva Have you ever heard someone say, “I don’t know why this is happening to me?” or, “My ex is really crazy”? I have said myself, “It’s not my fault he’s a jerk.” It can be…

  • How Painful Relationships Can Be The Best Teachers

    By: Jill Gross “Sometimes the wrong choices bring us to the right places.” ~Unknown “This is it,” I thought. I finally found the man I had been waiting for. Of course, it had taken me thirty-nine years and a painful divorce from my husband of ten years. But that was all worth it, I told myself,…

  • Knowing When to Give Space Or Move On

    By: Psychic Rhonda You may have consulted a psychic and have been told to give things time. This to me is a very difficult thing to do especially when going through a rough patch with your partner because it can put you in a state of emotional limbo..feeling as though absence will either push you…

  • Does Your Partner Often Get Angry and Shut Down Emotionally?

    By: Natalie Edwards “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” ~Carl Jung Three years ago I was on top of the world after realizing I had fallen in love with my best friend. Relationships this rare are beautiful, until one vital piece of them breaks down:…

  • You Have the Right to Feel Safe in Your Relationships (Even with Your Family)

    By:  Heidi Juniper “Anger is a signal, and one worth listening to[…]  It exists for a reason and always deserves our respect and attention.”  ~Harriet G. Lerner, The Dance of Anger My journey to authentic safety began, at long last, with my discovery of my own anger. Anger is my least favorite emotion. I don’t even…

  • 6 Questions to Help You Love Yourself More When It Feels Impossible

    By: Vironika Tugaleva “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” ~Buddha In 2012, self-love became the most important thing in my life. After self-loathing and addiction led me to rock bottom, there was nowhere to go but up. When someone asked me last year how long I’d…

  • Dealing With Jealousy

    By: Psychic Janette As far I can remember, I have always had jealous people around me. Was it my cousin, my siblings or someone else who is trying his all tricks to drive me away from someone I dearly love. When I was a kid, it was my cousin who was jealous of that chance…

  • How I Forgave What I Couldn’t Forget

     By: Patty Richmond “Forgiving someone doesn’t mean that their behavior was ‘OK.’ What it does mean is that we’re ready to move on. To release the heavy weight. To shape our own life, on our terms, without any unnecessary burdens. Forgiveness is pure freedom—and forgiveness is a choice.” ~Dr. Suzanne Gelb I remember the feeling…

  • Love Shows Up When You Do

     By: Melissa McCaughan “Slow down and everything you are chasing will come around and catch you.” ~John de Paola After six months of being single after my divorce, I wanted to date again. I was still afraid of failure and rejection, but I wanted to try. I felt the best way to get over it…

  • On Perfect Timing: When Things Aren’t Happening Fast Enough

    By: Sonya Derian “After winter comes the summer. After night comes the dawn. And after every storm, there comes clear, open skies.” ~Samuel Rutherford I was talking to someone this week about his feeling that things weren’t happening fast enough. That with all he was doing, intending, and putting out there more should be happening,…

  • What to Do When People in Your Life Don’t Want to Change

     By: Cloris Kylie Stock “If you don’t like something change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” ~Mary Engelbreit We all know at least one person who we think needs a self-help course or book more than we do. They’re the “wrong” ones, at least in our minds. I…

  • How to Step Out of the Drama Triangle and Find Real Peace

     By: Amaya Pryce “Keep your attention focused entirely on what is truly your own concern, and be clear that what belongs to others is their business and none of yours.” ~Epictetus  Are you addicted to drama? I was, but I didn’t know it. I thought I was just responding to life, to what was happening….

  • The Highs and Lows Of Being The Other Woman

    By: Psychic Rhonda So lately you have spent the majority of your nights pacing the floor and being torn between being patient or walking away. Whether your relationship with someone else’s mate was planned or not one thing is for sure, you have found the situation much harder than you anticipated. You may have told…

  • The Law of Attraction in Love: The Effects of Negative and Positive Thinking

    By: Psychic Shawn How Do Thoughts Control Events ? Firstly our thoughts create and in order to create we must first think, and if you think positive or negative, then that will be the outcome of events. Overall all the effects and changes you will see in your partner are often determined by your mind….