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5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Start Looking For Love
By: Aska Kolton “Don’t rush into any kind of relationship. Work on yourself. Feel yourself, experience yourself and love yourself. Do this first and you will soon attract that special loving other.” ~Russ Von Hoelscher Being in love is awesome. Sharing your life with someone special who gets you, adores you, and loves you for who…
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Feeling Anxious? People-Pleasing Could Be to Blame
By: Ilene S. Cohen “Living with anxiety is like being followed by a voice. It knows all your insecurities and uses them against you. It gets to the point when it’s the loudest voice in the room. The only one you can hear.” ~Unknown White lights flutter before your eyes. Your chest tightens, as if under…
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Mediumship
By: Advisor Jessica How I became a medium working with spirit! This is probably the hardest subject to get into when you are a psychic as well as a medium. I have heard it often enough- people asking me how can I hear my spirit guide. Most of my life I was an outdoor person…
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7 Clues You’re in an Unhealthy Relationship
By: Holly “You don’t let go of an unhealthy relationship because you stop caring about them. You let go because you finally start caring about you.” ~Charles Orlando Most of us have experienced the pain of being in an unhealthy relationship. It took me a long time to admit that I was in one. When I finally…
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Why I Keep My Heart Open Even Though I’ve Been Deceived
By: Myrite Rotstein “You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you’ll live in torment if you don’t trust enough.” ~Frank Crane I’m heading home with a latte in hand, listening to This American Life through my headphones when a woman sitting on a bench outside the café waves me down. She looks like…
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Go With the Flow
By: Psychic Stephanie In any given situation between people, we are both the teacher and the student. You’re in each other’s lives for a purpose and a time. The poem, A Reason, Season or a Lifetime captures this beautifully. We are put on this planet, in this lifetime to learn lessons and grow. Once you…
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How I Prioritize and Take Care of Myself Without Feeling Selfish
By: Sara Fabian “I am worthy of the best things in life, and I now lovingly allow myself to accept it.” ~Louise Hay Looking back on my life, I see that for a long time I struggled to take care of my own wants and needsand didn’t make them a priority. I used to find that very…
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3 Empowering Ways to Reframe Anxiety: Work With It, Not Against It
By: Melissa Renzi “If I take death into my life, acknowledge it, and face it squarely, I will free myself from the anxiety of death and the pettiness of life—and only then will I be free to become myself.” ~Martin Heidegger If you are a lifelong anxiety warrior like me, you’ve been on a journey of…
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Recognizing and Overcoming the Fears That Make Us Settle
By: Britt Bolnick “Fear, uncertainty, and discomfort are your compasses towards growth.” ~Celestine Chua Settling feels awful. Take it from me—for the past few months I’ve been holding the Scepter of Settling in both my personal life and my business. And it hasn’t felt good. The other morning, as I sat waiting in LaGuardia Airport to board a…
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7 Tips for Pursuing Your Passion, Even If You Feel Behind
By AJ Walton “Don’t worry about what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” ~Howard Thurman From center stage I looked out into the crowd as the stage lights warmed my face and did their best to obscure my vision….
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How Painful Relationships Can Be The Best Teachers
By: Jill Gross “Sometimes the wrong choices bring us to the right places.” ~Unknown “This is it,” I thought. I finally found the man I had been waiting for. Of course, it had taken me thirty-nine years and a painful divorce from my husband of ten years. But that was all worth it, I told myself,…
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6 Questions to Help You Love Yourself More When It Feels Impossible
By: Vironika Tugaleva “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” ~Buddha In 2012, self-love became the most important thing in my life. After self-loathing and addiction led me to rock bottom, there was nowhere to go but up. When someone asked me last year how long I’d…
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On Perfect Timing: When Things Aren’t Happening Fast Enough
By: Sonya Derian “After winter comes the summer. After night comes the dawn. And after every storm, there comes clear, open skies.” ~Samuel Rutherford I was talking to someone this week about his feeling that things weren’t happening fast enough. That with all he was doing, intending, and putting out there more should be happening,…
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What to Do When People in Your Life Don’t Want to Change
By: Cloris Kylie Stock “If you don’t like something change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.” ~Mary Engelbreit We all know at least one person who we think needs a self-help course or book more than we do. They’re the “wrong” ones, at least in our minds. I…
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What to Do When You Love Someone Who Hurts You
By: Lauren Erickson-Viereck “Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.” ~Pema Chödrön There is a person in my life who I love with all my heart, but in this relationship I struggle to keep a full cup myself. They are family, the situation is complicated and tender. But…
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What It Really Means to Have a Supportive Partner
By: Natalie Edwards “The best possible thing you can get out of a relationship is that you’re with someone who encourages you to be the best version of yourself every day.” ~Nishan Panwar Let me ask you a question. When was the last time you felt supported? When was the last time you felt safe,…
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How to Move On When Your Ex Already Has
By: Vishnu “Like a sandcastle, all is temporary. Build it, tend it, enjoy it. And when the time comes, let it go.” ~Jack Kornfield I picked up the butter cookies and a small postcard-sized painting I had brought for her. I took the third-floor hotel elevator down. Closing my eyes, I took several deep breaths….
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Coping With Trust Issues
By: Psychic Rhonda It is very difficult getting past a betrayal and broken trust in a relationship and sometimes some people are not able to. You love your partner dearly, but you can’t seem to get past that infidelity that happened before. You question every move and everything suddenly becomes suspicious. Working late, if they…
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How to Start Setting Boundaries and Prioritizing Your Needs
By: Naomi Arnold “You teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce.” ~Tony Gaskins I highly value being loyal, honest, empathetic, and supportive. I am also partial to advocating for the underdog. As a result, I have historically attempted to be a ‘hero’ in situations of difficulty,…
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6 Ways to Make Dating Less Frustrating
By: Melodi Cowan “You are strong when you know your weaknesses. You are beautiful when you appreciate your flaws. You are wise when you learn from your mistakes.” ~Unknown Social discovery apps and online dating sites provide us with an incredible amount of dating options. It should be easier to find the right person. Ironically,…